Ariadna Abella

Ariadna Abella - the spanish language calls it so. While we call it the "pure bee" . Now why is this name, seems to be a question to ponder over!!! Well, at every point of time someone of us or the other have had the privilege to be or to think themselves as the bee. I am no exception. With a wonderful family I have, I was one of the kind of pampered child. When young, thought life would be path of rose petals, all set, all done for me to walk on it. Little did I know it would be a roller coaster ride - whooo hooo!!!!one of its kind. When I used to go to those fairs with maa and expressed my urge to be on those giant wheels taking a ride, she used to say "that dangerous"..Did she actually meant so or was just trying to make me wait for the moment so that I can feel in life what reality, what danger I will have to face. The bee never stops. So do I. So do my family..

The day begins with its bright sunshine and ends with darkness... That's life...You have everything to taste. The happiness -  sadness, the love - hatred, the bonding and to be alone. 

23 yrs and one things life has taught, that my best friend use to say, in life we have choices, in whatever we do and it depends on us which one to choose, that would either make us happy or sad.

Now here in this space, whosoever 's name comes up, they have made a difference to my life.

I came to know a person, he had given up his life striving to earn to feed 3 mouths. He never had the wish to do things that will make him happy, he has done things to find a smile on those 3 faces.

I know a lady, she is strong, she is wonderful, you would never see her go weak whatever the situation she faced in life. She lost the most important person in her life, her Husband, still i doubt what makes her this strong to go on just to give that pure love to her children whereas most of us on silly break up with our partners after dating for a month or so commit suicide, we think that is the end.

I have seen a guy, he is no way different from you and me, I dont know, but that makes me wonder in this early age how could he take up the responsibility of keeping his sibling and mom in the best of the ways possible, he wouldn't let them even feel the absence of a guardian while guys of his age are busy partying, socializing and enjoying their life to the fullest.

I have(to be more precise"had") a best friend. He taught me what life is in the truest of the sense. But in the process I guess its well said that people change a lot. He now has a life of his own, we are not anymore in touch but true again like all the above people he is still remembered everyday, and here goes a salute to him to make me what I am today.

Truly said, there are few people that comes to your life, even if they go away, they leave a mark on your life.

The bee who would be busy the whole day searching for honey, no matter how tired she is, she moves on. I am no different, with all the huddles, I am still moving on. Decisions taken up are always never right, so has been the case with me, but that never tells me to stop. The bee never tells me to end all of the work I can do to gather the honey(Happiness) in my this entire life. At times in winter when the flowers are not there it might be difficult to find the petals of the rose, but at some point of time, it will always be there. So at times its not bad to have those roller coaster rides, u bet!!!!